Sunday, March 29, 2009


Name three things that would make a guy un-date-able.

The background of the question is that I'm almost always in the friend zone. I'm kinda used to it at this point, but I wonder if there's something I'm doing that is preventing me from ever breaking out of it. I'm just curious and would appreciate your thoughts. But please be kind.

1 comment:

  1. I'm a little outdated because I haven't actually done any dating in a few years, but my generally hunch is that women don't really work that way (strict dealbreaker standards) and that, even if they did, there would be no discernable pattern from one female to the next. Meaning it's not worth the stress trying to figure them out. For example, what pops into my head as something that would make a guy un-date-able is that he is physically abusive. But I've never been at the point of having to make a decision based on that factor, and data would indicate that plenty of females don't think violence is all that bad (as indicated by their behavior or willingness to maintain the relationship).

    As far as getting out of the friend zone, I do think things work better if the girl decides she is sorta into you before you make your interest in her really known.

    Of course I have more thoughts on this, but I don't want to clog your comment box.